The Apostle Paul had it right. It comes down to managing the attitude. He wrote down a list of thought positions in the Book of Philippians chapter 4 beginning in verse 8:
The Message version relates those passages this way:
How can we go wrong when we approach life and the people in it with such a noble attitude?
It’s a matter of taking the position in your mind that you intend to win the day and keep a friend or survive the day and navigate a tough situation. Either way, Paul presents a solution to help keep us ready when we open our mouths to speak.
Ah, but my political or other enemy has wronged me, said something slanderous, or has stated a different opinion! Our tendency is to immediately lash out. It is so tempting to seek correction or revenge.
But think how greatly you will disarm your enemy when you approach them with love and respect. It matters to God how you honor his human and physical creation. These two positions are why managing the attitude are important.
It’s a matter of you solving the issue rather than amplifying evil. It’s a matter of giving glory to God rather than letting evil get a foothold so it can twist, twist, twist.
The wise book of Proverbs in chapter 5 gives similar advice, and begins with these words:
Discretion is the better part of valor. Full or hungry, hands filled or empty, it’s Christ who gives us strength. Pray that He helps you always manage the tongue so you and your friends can excel and enjoy the fullness of life.
Heavenly Father, how great is Your name. May Your kingdom come to earth. Lord Jesus, give me wisdom. Help me to manage my thought life and my tongue so they don’t manage me. Thank you for the full-time gift of the Holy Spirit to help pray and seek Your guidance.
Thank you for the victory over sin and death so I can live my life to the full.
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